Peter’s Principles #14
"Live as if tomorrow is your last day"
1 Peter 4:7-11
Introduction:
1. When I was growing up my family took an annual vacation to Florida. It
was during my school’s annual winter break, usually in February. The school
gave a week off but my parents usually took me out of class for an extra week.
The teachers gave a long list of homework assignments to be done while we were
gone. My parents challenged me to do the homework while we drove so that I could
best enjoy the days on the beaches of Fort Lauderdale.
It took three full days of driving. For an eight or ten year old boy that was a
major percentage of my life-to-date. After a few hours on the road I started
asking if we were almost there. My parents would say, "We’re almost
there. Florida is near."
That could be understood as a parental lie or an accommodation of adult
perspective to childhood thinking. Every mile was nearer. From the long-term
perspective of a lifetime three days isn’t very long so it was truly
"near." My parents could have explained exactly when we would get
there and how many miles were left to drive but I probably wouldn’t have
understood—after all, I wasn’t old enough to drive and didn’t fully
understand such things.
By the second day of driving it seemed to me that life was an ordeal I had to
suffer. I kept asking and they kept saying "We’re almost there; Florida
is near."
2. First century Christians became weary in suffering. Life was
difficult. They wondered how much longer life would last. They asked when God
would bring history to a close. The answer came from Peter who said, "The
end of all things is near." His words could be understood in different
ways. For some, the end was near because they soon would die. For God, it meant
that the end of a chapter of history was close—at least in terms of the whole
length of human history.
3. Peter had a principle for how to live for the rest of life’s journey. Even
though the travel may seem long and difficult, live as if tomorrow were
your last day.
While you travel, get your homework done. Do it well. Live and think and work as
if tomorrow were the day you will arrive in heaven. Live the journey in
expectation of the destination. This will improve the trip and prepare you well
for when you arrive. Listen to the way Peter explains his 14th
principle:
4. 1 Peter 4:7-11
The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and
self-controlled so that you can pray. Above all, love each other deeply, because
love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without
grumbling. Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others,
faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms. If anyone speaks,
he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he
should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be
praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and
ever. Amen.
5. If we knew that tomorrow would be the last day of our lives, here is how
to live:
1. Clear mind 1 Peter 4:7
1. Start out with a clear mind.
1 Peter 4:7
The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and
self-controlled so that you can pray.
2. One translation of the Greek word used here is "preserve you
sanity." Don’t let your thinking get out of balance and strange.
3. Over the years I’ve listened to a lot of truly strange ideas. Those
ideas range over subjects from economics to politics to medical remedies to
guaranteed dates for the end of the world. People have given books and tapes and
articles to me to read and I tried to read them. Now I don’t promise to read
anything others give to me. If it is anonymous I always throw it away without
looking at what it is about. There isn’t time in life for all the divergent
ideas and notions people have.
4. I’ve discovered that some people move from one unusual idea to another.
It is not so much about the current topic as it is that they aren’t clear
thinkers. They are easily caught up in some current fad or theory. They are not
balanced. They do not connect biblical teaching and other’s views with their
ideas.
5. When you find yourself going off into theories different from godly
people, when you think you have a message from God that no one else has, when
you become obsessed with one issue to the exclusion of others, when your head
spins with unusual ideas—Stop; talk to wise, godly balanced Christians;
read the Bible; take a deep breath; clear your head. If you’re living like
tomorrow is your last day do it with a clear mind.
2. Self-control 1 Peter 4:7
1. And, with self-control.
1 Peter 4:7
The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled
so that you can pray.
2. The expression self-control originally meant "sober" in the
sense of not being drunk. It came to mean self-responsibility. Be realistic
in your thinking and behave in a responsible manner.
3. When asked what they would do if they found out they would die
tomorrow, some people answer, "I’d go out and get so drunk I wouldn’t
know whether I was alive or dead." That’s exactly the opposite of a
Christian approach. The Christian acknowledges that death comes tomorrow and
then behaves in a positive, righteous and sober way for the rest of today and
the beginning of tomorrow.
4. In other words, behave responsibly. Don’t say and do things that may
mislead or hurt others. Even if you have strange ideas, don’t do strange
things with them! Control yourself.
5. There’s a risk to this biblical advice. Most people with strange
ideas and out-of-control behavior don’t think their ideas are strange or that
their behavior is out of control. That’s why we need the Bible and other
Christians to keep us all in balance.
6. Keep in mind that Peter is suggesting that this is the way we are to live
every day—whether it is the last day of life or there are years more ahead.
3. Personal prayer 1 Peter 4:7
1. A clear mind and self-control leads to proper personal prayer.
1 Peter 4:7
The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear-minded and
self-controlled so that you can pray.
2. There is a fascinating concept taught here. It is that we are capable
of praying really bad prayers. If we have foggy minds and uncontrolled behavior
we probably are praying defective prayers.
3. Sometimes we hear people say that they have decided to do something that
seems obviously unwise. When telling them to reconsider their behavior they
reply, "But I’ve prayed about this!" There is a part of me that
wants to say, "So what?" Just because you have prayed about robbing a
bank, having an affair or writing a book doesn’t mean it is the right thing to
do. Check out your thinking, behave responsibly and pray personally into a
balanced approach to every day of life whether it is the last day or the first
of thousands to come.
4. Personal prayer should be the habit of every Christian. Pray every day
as if it were your last day; on your last day pray as you have prayed every
other day.
4. Deep love 1 Peter 4:8
1. Peter’s fourth counsel is really interesting and important. He calls
every Christian to deep love.
1 Peter 4:8
Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude
of sins.
2. The words "above all" refer back to be clear-minded,
self-controlled and praying. Even more than those things, love others. It is
sort of saying that if you have a choice between prayer and love, pick love. If
you have a choice between love and self-control, pick love. If you have a choice
between deep love and a clear mind, pick deep love.
3. Love is doing what is best for others. It is other-centered
rather than self-centered. This actually helps us clear our heads, control our
behavior and pray our prayers—we are acting for the good of others.
4. It is a wonderful truth that "love covers over a multitude of
sins." When referring to Jesus and his death on the cross it
means that his love atones for our sins. For us, it means that we do our best to
de-emphasize the sins of others rather than over-emphasize the sins of others.
Think of the ways mothers cover their children’s sins.
u She says that her son works for the federal
government (he’s an inmate at Leavenworth).
u She says that her children call her on the
telephone (actually it’s once a year on Mother’s Day).
u She says that her daughter is entrepreneurial
(she ran away from home at 16).
è Mothers love their children and try to cover up
their children’s sins with the best possible spin they can give.
5. Certainly this is not suggesting that Christians lie to make each other
look good but that we always love other Christians as a mother loves a son or
daughter—making them look as good as we possibly can.
5. Happy hospitality 1 Peter 4:9
1. One of the ways we can express love for others is with happy hospitality.
1 Peter 4:9
Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.
2. Hospitality was very important in the first century because there were
not hotels and motels, as we know them today. Public inns were expensive,
filthy, dangerous and immoral. So, Christians opened their homes to other
Christians as they traveled.
3. The Greek word for hospitality combines two words meaning "love of
strangers." That is, that Christians are not only hospitable
to those we know but to those we don’t know. And, we do it with delight—no
grumbling. We say hello to strangers. We’re nice to people. We make
newcomers feel welcome in our neighborhood, business and church. (Don’t just
walk out today—smile and say hello to someone you’ve never met before.)
4. Put this into the perspective of today being the last day of your life. Do
you really want to spend the last day of your life inviting a total stranger
out for lunch or into your home?
Remember Mother Teresa. She took the dying from the streets of Calcutta
and brought them in for the final hours of their lives. She washed them and
put them in a bed with clean sheets. She fed them if they could eat. She
talked to them and held their hands until they died. She loved them so they
wouldn’t have to die alone.
Hospitality is doing this as a way of life for the rest of our lives.
5. Some of us don’t like strangers. We don’t like talking to
people. We don’t like to smile. We prefer to not know our neighbors. We are
uncomfortable around street people and the homeless. We wish there were no new
employees and we avoid all eye contact at church. The Bible says to do it
anyway and be happy about it. Happiness in this case isn’t a feeling; it is
a choice.
6. One cold day this spring Charleen I were driving through north
Minneapolis. There was a lonely looking man on a street corner with
a sign asking for money. All the other cars just drove past. We stopped. I
reached out and gave him a ten-dollar bill. He said, "God bless
you!" and Charleen immediately responded, "He already has."
That’s why we live this way as Christians up until the last day of our lives—God
has blessed us. God has shown love to us even when we were strangers to God.
So, we do for others as God has done for us.
6. Blessing others 1 Peter 4:10-11
1. All these last-day-of-your-life actions are tied together, including #6 of
blessing others.
1 Peter 4:10-11
Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others,
faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms. If anyone speaks,
he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he
should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be
praised through Jesus Christ.
2. The Bible teaches that God gives gifts to every Christian. Gifts are
different abilities to serve others. If you are a Christian God has already
given you a gift with which you can benefit and bless others. Those gifts fit
into two big categories: speaking and serving. Some people have both kinds of
gifts. Some only have one kind of gift. But, we all are gifted!
3. What is your gift? What are you really good at? Teaching?
Helping? Giving? Leading? Whatever God has made you good at is what you should
do to bless others in the name of Jesus in church and in the community. Maybe
your gift is best used teaching Sunday School or tutoring children struggling in
school. Maybe your gift is best utilized advocating for the poor or working in
the church nursery. Maybe you are most gifted in running a corporation as a
Christian or ushering in a church service.
4. Whatever you are good at, whatever God has gifted you to do—serve others
with your gifts right up to the last day of your life. The whole Christian
idea is that we fulfill the purpose of our lives by doing what God has gifted us
to do in serving others right up to the end. We should live to bless others
every chance we get. Suppose that what you are really good at is helping the
unemployed find a job—wouldn’t it be great to spend the last day of life
helping someone find employment rather than watching the clock tick out your
last hours? That’s what Jesus did—he was blessing and helping the thief on
the cross next to him right up until Jesus took his last breath.
5. A totally Christian way of thinking and living is that God has blessed us
and we want to bless others—bless others with our words, our money, our
action, our lives, our everything.
7. Praising God 1 Peter 4:11
1. All this last minute living is summed up at the end of 1 Peter 4:11.
1 Peter 4: 11
To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.
2. This is a benediction. That is, a good saying. The sum total of a
Christian’s life is to make God look good, to show off the greatness and power
of God through our lives, to point to the magnificence of God that has been
forever and will last forever and ever.
3. You may have seen a movie about the American presidency where the
President of the United States is disabled and dies. The White House staff
substitutes a look-alike that passes for the President. One of the problems is
that a Secret Service Agent who is the President’s bodyguard knows he’s a
fake and has a disdain for the substitute. As the story progresses the stand-in
shows presence, skill and leadership. Near the end of the film the Secret
Service agent offers the ultimate compliment when he says that he would be
willing to take a bullet for the look-alike. Imagine having such respect for
someone else that you would be willing to be shot and die to protect another’s
life and reputation.
That’s the way it is for Christians when it comes to Jesus Christ. We know
that Jesus already died and gave his life for us. Now we are willing to live or
die for him. Whether it is the last day of our lives or any day of our lives—let
us live exactly the same way. We live praising God, making him look good,
willing to do whatever he wants us to do.
Conclusion:
We are Christians! We live "so that in all things God may
be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and
ever. Amen."
May 11-12, 2002 Wooddale Church
© Leith Anderson 2002